It makes you nervous.
Your heart begins to beat faster than you can count.
And your thumbs and stomach are closest to your language at every step.
But as a man, knowing how to approach a girl is one of th
e most important things to know in the world of seduction.
Now, I’m not going to make it more difficult for you to find already.
Yes, talking to a girl that you know is not easy.
But then again, if you know how to do it, you will realize just how easy the whole of the game can be.
How to approach a girl you don’t know
I’m going to teach you how to keep things simple and help you win her heart, even before you say “hello”.
Here’s one piece of advice, that you should remember for the rest of your love life.
Always let the girl know that you want to speak to her before you even talk to him. Do not make the mistake of approaching a girl that you are ready for no attention. It almost never works, unless you are a good speaker with a sharp tongue.
If you are a Joe who wants to turn into a magnet, just follow these steps and you’ll win her attention before you finish your drink!
How to approach a girl – Getting his attention
You need to let the girl know that you are going to deal with it. So catch its attention to begin by following these steps.
# 1 look at it.
Look at it from time to time just to make him know that you try to catch his attention. Be sneaky and discreet, and always seek just to get her attention. You wake up in his curiosity and will force you to look from time to time to see if you are still in the process of the watch.
# 2 contact with eyes.
Every time she looks at you, look at it and turn away immediately from the look. Continue to watch from time to time, and from time to time, lock your gaze on it for a small fraction of a second and watch it again. By doing this, you are already in the process of building sexual attraction. But if she does not like that, she is probably not interested in you.
# 3 Appear to be clumsy.
If you’re with your friends, watch from time to time, but do it as if you are distracted and unable to concentrate on the conversation you have with your friends. By doing this, you make him see that it is in your mind and you’re too distracted to focus on your friends. It is flattery subtle!
# 4 He smile.
Contact with eyes will change from time to time, once or twice every minute and not more than that, and when you feel brave enough, flash a small smile at the corner of your lips for a second, and make sure that she notices your smile. Don’t give him a big smile, however. a big mischievous grin, at this stage, will scare any girl.
These movements are to build the connection and let him know that you are interested in it. And at the same time, it will also help you to understand if it also is really interested to you. If she responds to your gestures, it is a sign that she is interested in you.
But if it starts to ignore you at any time, it is probably not interested in you and you need to try your luck elsewhere.
How to start talking to the girl
Now that you have built the attraction and the atmosphere, everything that you need to do is walk up to her and say something. Use these tips to approach her and start a good conversation.
# 1 Wait for the moment.
Sometimes, all you need to do is wait for the girl give you a chance to talk to him. If she is really interested in you and wants to talk to you, she had created enough opportunities for you to walk towards it. She could do it by walking up to the house of ladies, moving away from his friends, responding to a phone call, or even just by you smiling and leaving the place.
It is always easier to talk to a girl when she wants it himself. There are no distractions from his friends or difficult times, as she is already waiting for your approach.
# 2 Gesticulez.
Use the right gestures to get his attention. This is tricky, but as long as you get its attention, it will still work as long as you do it with confidence.
Look at her and smile. Make a sudden movement with your neck a little bit after locking your eyes with it, and use your eyes to make him a sign to head for the bar or the output. Even if it does not, you can walk up to the place yourself, and she will know what you want to say.
Not all girls will appreciate your actions toward them and ask them to walk towards you, but if you have built the chemistry before, they would be more than happy to get away from their friends and give you a chance to talk to them.
# 3 The group of girls.
Walk up to it with your eyes fixed on his confidence. Walk to the right of the flock, but look out in front of her and only her. Take a look at anyone else, and friends envious will pounce on you with sarcastic remarks.
“Hey … I really don’t want to interrupt you girls, but could I talk to you for a minute? I will not be able to forgive me if I am leaving this place without you knowing ”
Use a phrase that you want and it will work as long as you say it well, but don’t forget to make them feel special by saying something that reveals the extent to which you want to get to know them. And unless her friends seem to take your hand and push it towards you or by a broad smile, completely avoid looking at them.
# 4 Buy him a drink.
This is something that can work very well in a bar, as long as you have already built the contact of the eyes, and awakened his interest. Buy him the same drink, it should already have one and ask the server to offer it to him. The server is probably going to drop a message nerdy and as big as ” the guy sitting out there would like to offer you this drink … ”
When she accepts the drink and turns towards you with a smile, that is your signal. Don’t wait any longer or she will think you’re a coward. But if you buy him a drink without having to build the first connection, you just have to come out as a man creeping.
# 5 A duo.
If there are two girls, head to it while watching the girl you love. If the girl is interested in you too, then his girlfriend goes to slide quietly up with an excuse. But even if the friend decides to stay, simply introduce yourself and say something similar to the line used in # 3. But this time, understand that the girlfriend of the young girl is in the conversation and you need to make sure that she feels good in her skin. But don’t forget to keep the focus on the girl that you like!
Let the conversation move with the spirit and it will certainly do you good. But if you want to ensure that it works all the time, build the tension and the mystery first with your eyes and your eye contact. You will always end up impressing the girl, even before you approach them.